However, there is another housecleaning chore you should think about.  The most important housecleaning is what’s between you and your spouse’s ears. 

People don’t realize how many expectations they carry.  Everything from:

• How the birth will happen
• What the baby’s personality will be like
• How the new mama / papa should behave
• How the new family lifestyle should be
• What is the best parenting style

The list can go on forever.  If you don’t start dealing with these now, these unrecognized expectations will come out at the worst times.  One funny example; when a woman became a mother, the husband didn’t want her in racy lingerie anymore.  That was inappropriate for the mother of his child.  Yep, you read right.

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Do your new family a favor, find and discuss those hidden expectations.  Life will be much easier.